- Cut out all the super cute crap: Guys like girls, and sometimes especially just how cute they are. The little pout y face when you’re angry, the cute talk, i.e. “that sounds soooo fun!”, “ooooh I want pancakes, they're so yummy!”, even the heart melting effect baby animals have on you. But one thing you have to know is, that when the guys ditch you to go hang out with their boys, a big part of that is they need a breather from all the ‘cute’ stuff. Girls seemingly live in a world of fluffy soft things, big watery eyes, and baby animals. Guys need time to escape to their world, which is bloody death movies, our epic glory stories, and video-freaking-games... not ANYthing cute
- Don't talk so high: When you spend time with your girls it may be okay to raise the pitch of your voice when excitement grabs hold of you, but that crap is downright harmful to a mans ears. When he is spending time around girls, he is patiently bearing the pain of “Oh my gosh Jessica, I just LOVE your dress! Its so nice!”. He needs time weekly, or sometimes daily, to hang with the boys and not have to hear the whistle high inflections of womanly excitement. Talk normal when you're hanging out with the guys.
- Don't ruin the ‘boys dance party’: This is very important so listen closely. Dudes love to dance. They especially love to dance when they're alone with just the other guys, mostly because they like to dance in the stupidest, goofiest ways possible. Its just a total mess of present mindedness. One of the CRUCIAL reasons most girls can't hang out with the boys is because girls tend to see these silly dance fests and crinkle their eyebrows to it. Maybe its because they feel a bit insecure during it and get mentally defensive, or maybe because they truly do think it's dorky- but it doesn't matter. If you can't get up and join them in their ridiculous dance parade, or at least support it, then you're ruining man time, and you won't be allowed to hangout with them exclusively again.
- The Whisper: now I know girls love to whisper to people about things, but guys can’t stand it. When you're hanging with the boys you just gotta say what your gonna say. If you wanna leave, say “I’m out guys, PEACE”, if you’re hungry “Man, I’m starved!”, if you think the movie someone wants to watch sucks, then say ‘yo this movie sucks’. But please, please, please do not whisper to someone what you think. If your with the pack for the nights, have the common courtesy to just say what you think. But use a little tack, no reason to tell someone their an idiot or that their ugly.
- Trying too hard: even though all of these things may require a conscience effort for you to do differently, because they are so far from how you would normally act, don’t let yourself get too carried away. You want to hang out with the boys because its fun, goofy, and simple. When guys hangout together there is a lot of ‘in the moment’ going on. But nothing may be worse than a girl who tries TOO hard to be accepted by the boys. You may be going overboard if everything you say is “oh that's sick!”, “yo wazzup!”, “Aw yeeeah that's so tight!”. Don’t do anything that is so out of your character that they feel like their with a complete gomer. Just keep it cool.
